I have not heard from the Mechanic since Sunday night when he called at 11:30 pm to tell me he had been at Jones Beach all day & has been in my neighborhood often but doesn't call. He called last night at 7:00. And again at 10:30. He made one last attempt at 11:30 and we chatted/argued. I said "Why are you calling?" He said "To talk. See how you are." I asked why and he said because he wanted to see what was going on. I told him that this is too frustrating because it went from him calling 3 time a day and wanting to hang out a lot....I think we hung out 9 times in less than 3 weeks. To him only calling me after the fact that the night was over.
I told him its ridiculous. I invite him to hang out with me & friends but he doesn't. He said its because they are looking for women. I said "What do you think my friends & I are doing? We are looking for men. You can still come, though." He then said that they act immature and I wouldn't want to be around that. Again, I point out that I can leave whenever I want and I know he's immature. Big shocker there.
He gave me a hard time & changed his story three times in under two minutes. I told him to forget it. He said he'd call me tomorrow. I asked why and he said to talk. About what I have no clue.
He called at 1:30 am as if it were 1:30 pm and wanted to chat. I said no. He became angry and asked why not. I told him, again, to call me at nromal hours and that he had just said two hours earlier that he'd call the next day...why two hours later? More nager and we hung up.
I am so lost. I need to figure out what it is I am putting out there & reign it back in.
I am also calling Mr. Finance today to ask him to delete my number from his cell. He has had two weeks to call and chat. He has had two weeks to set up one of the many dates he planned that first night we met at Blue Honu. He has called two nights and both times it was after 11;30. Kind of like I am a booty call. Kind of like I am a second choice. Sort of in the way that there were no takers while he was out & thought "Hey. Maybe that Grotter chick is desperate enough to meet me, a total stranger, at 1am to 'hang out'". Boy does he have the wrong woman.
I am not liking this at all.
