Cowboy sent me that text last Sunday about "no money....disaster life". It set my world into a spin that I was not ready to handle. especially not knowing the week I was about to deal with. So Tuesday, I sent the one back about him having friends/girlfriend/parents to give him the money to pay me or forget it as it is costing me $$$ to have him out of my life for good.
Well, Friday night, having a few rum&cokes inme, I called him saying "I wnt my money. I thought about it & that is my hard-earned money & I am not letting youoff the hook with it. If I let it go, it is me bailing you out again. I am guessing you lost your job, can't pay rent, and she is pregnant. whatever, I want my money."
I felt bad & figured it'd be best if we talk & clear this up. So, I calle dhis cell yesterday........expecting him to pick up because it is his day off. He didn't. However, after leaving a message saying we need to clear htis up & finish it, I get a text back. His cell number....but not him doing the texting. The conversation proceeds as follows:
Girlfriend: "You need to stop. I am not pregnant and he will give you the money soon back off this is insane how you are being he has no home right now"
I am not being insane. It's mine. And I have not spoken to him since Dec. 30th. The first text I sent was Feb 14 and then called Feb. 21 and left a message. I then contacted him March 5th when he decided to respond and upset me more than he ever will understand. He also said he wanted to wish me a happy bday. Does she know that? Because GF is making it as if I am constantly calling and texting him and he has never replied.
Me: "I didn't call you I replied to him. Let him speak for himself"
She then sent "He is not taking to you so try again he is with me when he is not at work. You have no idea what he has been going thru and I have been there."
At this point, I called and said "Hi Cowboy. Hi GF. GF, I know you are there for him now and that is great. He needs someone there for him. But I was there for him for 4 1/2 years and this is between him and me. Cowboy, you need to be mature and call me and deal with this yourself".
She then texts back "He knows he owes you and will pay when he can im in this and speaking up cuz you upset him and its makin me mad".
I sent back "He makes me angry contacting me and now you get involved? he has no reason to not talk to me. I didn't do this. he did"
She sent back "Whatever. he doesnt contact you cuz hes gonna marry me so back off"
I finished with "This is so immature. He can call me. Congrats on the engagement."
Does she know he wanted to contact me for my birthday? Does she know he sent that text? Why is she allowed to have contact with me when this is between him and me? I get it. He moved on. She is the one he love & that's great that she is there for him But I do not deserve to be treated like this by his girlfriend. I have not done anything to him. I havent done anything to her. The fact is that she cares for him and is trying to protect him, but he & I need to discuss this once and for all. Him and me. Not him, me and GF. He can talk to me. I upset him? How about he has now insulted me by passing me off like I am some irate client calling the center & just got handed off to the manager? I don't deserve this treatement and he knows it.
