I was supposed to meet up with the Mechanic for a night out. He and I haven't seen eachother all summer and have not kept up much contact. I was giddy with the idea of hanging out, going out for a dirnk, and makin' out with him. He called me at 2:00 and said "Hey. Whatcha doin'? I said waiting to hear what the plan was. He began to bark at me saying "Why do you need a f**n plan? I thought we'd just chill at my place with a bottle of wine." Hmmm. That was not what I had in mind. He had said dinner and drinks. Now we've been reduced to hanging out like highschoolers with a bottle to share. Nope.
I said "I thought we were going out?" He said "Why can't we just do this? Come over. We'll have a drink and then see where it goes." I said I wanted to go out as we had originally planned. So, where did he want to go? "Why the f do you need to go out? Why can't we just see what happens? Why do you need an f**n plan?" And in the background a coworker says "Because she is a woman, that's why." He threw a fit. I said to forget it. I said that this was all too immature and I wasn't going to waste my time or his. So I hung up. He calls again and yells at me. I'd like to point out that we never had a relationship so this is way too pointless to get worked up over.
He texts me "Maybe this is why you are 32 and alone". I sent back "You are too immature and I am not doing this." He then called repeatedly for the next two hours. So I finally called him back and said that I was not going to hang out that night. He became upset and couldn't understand why I wouldn't come out. Even if he said he was sorry. I explained that I am not used to people speaking to me in the manner which he did & that he insulted me with the rude text. He still dodn't get it and asked again why was it I wouldn't hang out if he apologized.
I left it with I'd call him soon.
So I called up KDP & we headed out for shopping & icecream. On my way to see her, the Whiner called! He wanted to know what I was doing and if he could join. I pointed out I was with KDP (whom he went on a date with & then never called---LOSER) and we'd call him afer we were done at the mall.
I figured he'd never show up, and KDP said call him to join us at Coldstone. Which he did. Shocker! It was uncomfortable for about two minutes & then things flowed. I asked KDP afterwards how she ahndled it & she pointed out that I said he was afraid to actually get what he claims he wants ina woman & its his problem if he freaked, not her's.
Note: the icecream was delish!
