So, Mr. Unemployed....it turns out.....has just started a new job after 6 months. Yes. He originally said 1 but now it sneaks in there as 6. That's a BIG difference. How does he plan to go out? I know he said last weekend he was so excited because he was going out to Chilis! Well, I like Chilis and all, but when you can barely afford to take yourself there, where are you taking me & am I paying? I don't mind paying for myself...or the guy.....see Cowboy relationship....but I am old-fashioned and do believe that if the man initiates the first couple of dates then he should plan the activity and pay. I've done enough "Bank of Grotter" transactions to not do it again.
We've emailed back & forth a couple of times. He's shy. He doesn't like bars or clubs (seems to be no negotiations on those), and he seems 'settled' in his own ways. He has one single guy friend who likes to go out late/bars/drunk women and Mr. Unemployed is not into that so it seems that he sits home a lot.
I may be making too many assumptions with this one, but I have not had luck on here yet, so I am not looking for much here either. When they start out lying (as all have so far) it doesn't get much better. Plus, I feel as if I am going to fill a huge void/hole and that is not what I want.
I figure I will call him today just to say 'hi' and see if I can even tolerate his voice. Although, I liked Mr. Law's voice at first & then it got all drippy & yucky.
UGH! Cowboy--You Suck!
